Tuesday's Thank You's and Thoughts

As I start this Tuesday post I would like to give my thank you's before I start my thoughts...

I have been bestowed a tremedous honor by D-Dot the King.
He has made me his Blogger of the Week!
Because of this great honor I will blog everyday.
I would like to properly and publicly thank him...
*Thank you, your highness* :)
He too, is a Gemini genius as well as a Dragon (like me)
so naturally he is wonderful and fabulous! Make sure you check him out.

I also would like to thank my big sister Kia...
The "Oh Well" *Sweetie* of Texas by way of the Crenshaw/Baldwin Hills
Mall and Slawson Swapmeet. (SOUTH CENTRAL HOLLA!!!)
She told me yesterday (and I quote):
"The next time you blog, you need to dedicate a whole page to me and how BIG sisterly I have been to you all these years since you were just a tike....and how if it wasn't for me in your life teaching you the ABC's of womanhood, you would be just a poor shallow image of a wisp of a person instead of the dedicated, hard working yet humble, INTERNATIONAL and saintly sangin diva you are today."

So to my big sister I say:

Thank you Sweetie Kia!
Now get your own blog- MISS BLACK AMERICA!!! WOO! WOO! WOO!

O.K.

Now that I have gotten all that out of the way-
Let's bring on my thoughts... Shall We??

How do you know that you have stayed too long?

Is it when it's been 5, 7, or 10+ years and yall STILL aren't married?
or living together? or making any moves towards co-habitation?
or anything else of significance?

Is it when he/she still is on the fence about whether they want to
be with you or not- because they are still trying to see if "we are
gonna work out" in the long run? Although you've already put
in 5, 7 or 10+ years of BULL SH*T and casual sex?

When do you realize that you have stayed too long?

Is it when they promise they will change-
(and they do...)

the hour before they sweet talk your
clothes off...

during the moments of bliss...



and the 5 mins after they get what they want?


How long does it take you to feel the *STING* of the

VIRTUAL BITCH SLAP you get when you've just STAYED TOO LONG?!





Sangindiva~